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Why Kids Repeat What Works: Using Rewards and Routines That Stick
Have you ever noticed that your child tends to repeat certain behaviors—both the ones you love and the ones that drive you crazy? There’s a reason for that. Children, like all of us, tend to repeat what works. When a behavior leads to something pleasant—attention, praise, or a desired activity—it’s likely to show up again. Psychologists call this principle operant conditioning , but for parents, it simply means: behaviors that get rewarded, get repeated. 1. Kids Learn from Wh

Ryan Yam
Oct 283 min read


Not All Anxiety Is the Same: Why Understanding Different Types of Anxiety Matters for Children and Teens
When we hear the word anxiety, most of us picture a child who worries too much or a teen who seems stressed. But anxiety isn’t just one...

Ryan Yam
Oct 32 min read


Do Parents Need a License? No — But PMT Is the Next Best Thing
Did you need a license or certification before becoming a parent? Of course not. Parenting is the only job where you’re expected to know...

Ryan Yam
Sep 93 min read


Who Am I? Exploring Cultural Identity Development
For children—and even for many adults—the question “Who am I?” isn’t just about likes, dislikes, or hobbies. It’s about understanding...

Ryan Yam
Aug 233 min read


Helping Kids Slow Down and Shine: A Simple Thinking Strategy for Home
Some children seem to live life at full speed — speaking before others finish, jumping into activities without instructions, or reacting...

Ryan Yam
Aug 92 min read


Rethinking Neurodivergent Labels: ADHD & Dysgraphia in Modern Society
I’ve had the privilege of working with many children and teens who think, feel, and learn differently—students with ADHD, autism,...

Ryan Yam
Jul 282 min read


Don’t Forget to Play: The Missing Piece in Summer Learning
Don’t Forget to Play: Why Summer Fun Is More Than Just a Break As summer rolls in, parents everywhere scramble to schedule camps,...

Ryan Yam
Jun 253 min read


Categorical or Dimensional? Rethinking How We Understand Children’s Behavior
For decades, professionals across psychology, psychiatry, and education have worked to define, classify, and treat children’s emotional...

Ryan Yam
Jun 143 min read


Empathy Over IQ: What Every Parent and Educator Must Know About Preparing Kids for an AI Future
Artificial Intelligence (AI) is changing everything . From classrooms to clinics to corporate offices, machines are getting smarter—and...

Ryan Yam
May 283 min read


Why Some Teens Just Can’t Face School—And What Their Thoughts Might Be Telling Us
Lately, I’ve met several adolescents who’ve said something along the lines of, “I just can’t go to school.” These aren't kids being...

Ryan Yam
May 123 min read


Autism Is Not a Disease to Be Cured: Understanding the History and Evolution of Autism Spectrum Disorder
Recently, Robert F. Kennedy Jr. made a public statement suggesting that autism should be “cured.” While such sentiments may reflect a...

Ryan Yam
Apr 254 min read


“I Got Every Answer Right”? What Trump’s Cognitive Test Buzz Really Tells Us About IQ (And What It Doesn’t)
In a headline grabbing attention this week, President Donald Trump told reporters: “I got every answer right.” He was referring to a...

Ryan Yam
Apr 124 min read


School Choice Sounds Great, But What About Kids Who Need Extra Help?
School choice sounds appealing—who wouldn’t want more options? But here’s the catch: What happens to students with special needs when...

Ryan Yam
Mar 315 min read


Therapy Isn’t Magic—But It’s Pretty Close!
“Can You Fix My Kid?” If I had a dollar for every time a parent asked me, "Can you fix my kid?" I’d probably be retired on a beach...

Ryan Yam
Mar 164 min read


Corporal Punishment: Does It Really Teach, or Just Hurt?
Introduction Corporal punishment is a topic that sparks strong emotions in many parents. Some may remember receiving it as children,...

Ryan Yam
Mar 26 min read


Stacking Poker Chips: The Secret to Raising Confident Kids
Introduction Self-esteem is crucial to a child's emotional and psychological well-being. It influences how they see themselves, interact...

Ryan Yam
Feb 174 min read


The School-to-Prison Pipeline: Are We Failing Our Most Vulnerable Students?
As a Doctor of Psychology with experience working and serving underserved populations, I have developed a strong interest in exploring...

Ryan Yam
Feb 67 min read


Are We Relying Too Much on Medication to Manage ADHD in Children, and What Alternatives Should We Consider?
Disclaimer: Dr. Ryan Yam is a Doctor of Psychology (Psy.D.), not a medical doctor. This article is for informational purposes only and...

Ryan Yam
Jan 255 min read
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